By Isis Nezbeth
Isis is a first-time mother, author, and free-spirited freelancer.
It’s been too long! There are a bunch of previous articles I think you’d get a lot out of, I just didn’t focus them specifically on you fellas. Today though, I want to share with you something HUGE. The secret to every woman’s heart. As complex and/or annoying as us woman can seem, we’re really very simple. All of our lives, we are told that that the way to your heart is through your stomach… is that true?
Either way, I promise you that once you finish this article us women will make a lot more sense to you then we probably ever have… so, let’s get into it!
First, I want you to think of the things all women have in common. Yes, all women. That means it can’t be fashion, it can’t be hairstyles, it can’t even be the attraction of men… It’s not so easy, is it? So, I’ll tell you.
I don’t know a single woman in the world who doesn’t want something for herself. It may not be the ideal job or the ideal lifestyle, but still she has a goal and her eye is on that prize. So what’s the secret?
The secret to every woman’s heart is to support her.
There is nothing more attractive about a man than his willingness to support not just women, but anyone. If you think about it, the kind of men woman usually voice as their ‘dream guy’ is one who is a business owner, role model, or some type of leader. It’s because we enjoy a man who is strong enough to lead, passionate enough to help, and bold enough to show it.
As common as it may seem, it is not an everyday situation that we find a man who supports our thoughts, ideas, and visions. I guess I should have mentioned earlier that I’m not really talking about the secret to getting the woman, but more so showing you how to stand out and gain a place in her life that really won’t fade. We won’t turn our backs on someone who supports us. We need it. We are far more likely to foster the friendship or relationship because we need support. Especially from a strong man.
Ask that woman what her plans for life are. Ask that woman what her goals are. Ask her what steps she has already taken to get there. Ask that woman what else she needs to do and if she needs help getting there. After that, KEEP UP WITH HER ABOUT THOSE THINGS. Praise her for accomplishments, but get on her case a little bit when she’s losing her drive. These are the foolproof strategies. Naturally, she’ll share those thoughts with you and she’ll more than likely continue to share those thoughts with you because she will grow fond of your care and interest in her goals and plans. That speaks volumes.
You want to blow a woman’s mind. Support her brand. Support her business. Support her being.
It’s our little secret.